About The Four P's
eThe Four P's is a concept of positive power and the power of positive thinking. We have all heard people talking about it and we have possibly even read the book "The Secret" This is where creator of the four p's started over 10 years ago.
Some people are naturally just positive thinkers and these are the people around us that we always see who just seem to have everything going for them. They just seem to magically attract anything they so desire to achieve. Sometimes we wish we could have that ability to achieve the same potential as them and don't realize the only person stopping us is ourselves. There is a great myth that you have to be well educated to get what you want in life. When in reality a lot of the beliefs and education that we get in school is almost designed to set you away from achieving your true potential and we at the four p's believe this is down to the very ugly side of humanity that we call GREED!
People who proclaim themselves to be at the the top of the pile while encouraging people with promise of education and great work / life balance but giving you just enough to live and struggle with day to day living are really doing nothing more than dangling a carrot on a string in front of a donkey. They tend to dumb us down in schools. From childhood they traumatize our innocent little brains with things like Bambi and Sleeping Beauty with tales of murder and death to parents and wicked villains and then of course there is the innocent but biggest lie of all that our parents are encouraged to tell about Santa clause.
No wonder we can't always achieve what we want when our parents have been groomed into breaking our trust no matter how innocent it may seem from our very start in life. This is not to say that everything they teach us growing up or at school is a negative thing but it is good to keep these small things in the back of your mind on how we are programed from the offset to lower our own belief system. All these things however have over the years had very subtle effects on how many of us think and believe and also to how we actually perceive the world around us.
I will talk a little about my life in a moment and the trials and tribulations that brought me to some of my lowest points in my life where I discovered so much about myself and who I truly am and how I could truly achieve my full potential. If only they also had a class at schools even if only once a week teaching us about spirituality and the energy around us within the universe and techniques on how to get into the correct frequency and allowing us to align with what we truly want in life. Things would be so much easier for everyone but again this comes to greed and people at the top wanting it all. They think there is not enough to go around but when you start to discover the law of attraction and about how abundance and gratitude work hand in hand you will learn that there is enough richness in the world to go around. To be rich isn't always to have the most gold or the biggest houses although these things are all certainly achievable for every single one of us if we truly wanted and desired them. We often only have a little self love and self confidence if the truth be known and are willing to learn new mental exercises to re-establish our own belief system now it is not just hocus pocus and believe it and receive it as a lot of people walked away from the secret thinking it would just be a case of this Think positive, Believe and Achieve I know lots of people who didn't realise how the word Attraction is spelt. Once you have the thought and the dream that is just simply the seed. You must water it and tend to it and work fairly hard at achieving it to it's greatest potential.
You have to have faith and belief in what you are wanting then you have to have faith and belief in what actions you are doing to achieve and manifest these thoughts and beliefs into your reality. Our life is just like a road map we can plan a route or a journey to reach a destination but we can change that journey at anytime and the beauty of life is there is no right or wrong turns and if you do make a turn you don't feel is serving you then you can learn from it and turn back change the chapter and the outlook.
Goal of The Four Positives:
The goal of the four positives is to create a community of inspiring people who can encourage one another check out our YouTube channel for lots of inspiring content and lots more to come. If you would like to take part in the project and send us a one minute long video talking about your favourite affirmation or something that inspires you. We can use this to inspire others via our channel. The world needs some positivity right now so lets work together to build one another up and not tear one another down. Submit your videos below no longer than 2 mins. Please include in your email your name, career and any information you would like to add about yourself in the description up to 100 words.
Some people are naturally just positive thinkers and these are the people around us that we always see who just seem to have everything going for them. They just seem to magically attract anything they so desire to achieve. Sometimes we wish we could have that ability to achieve the same potential as them and don't realize the only person stopping us is ourselves. There is a great myth that you have to be well educated to get what you want in life. When in reality a lot of the beliefs and education that we get in school is almost designed to set you away from achieving your true potential and we at the four p's believe this is down to the very ugly side of humanity that we call GREED!
People who proclaim themselves to be at the the top of the pile while encouraging people with promise of education and great work / life balance but giving you just enough to live and struggle with day to day living are really doing nothing more than dangling a carrot on a string in front of a donkey. They tend to dumb us down in schools. From childhood they traumatize our innocent little brains with things like Bambi and Sleeping Beauty with tales of murder and death to parents and wicked villains and then of course there is the innocent but biggest lie of all that our parents are encouraged to tell about Santa clause.
No wonder we can't always achieve what we want when our parents have been groomed into breaking our trust no matter how innocent it may seem from our very start in life. This is not to say that everything they teach us growing up or at school is a negative thing but it is good to keep these small things in the back of your mind on how we are programed from the offset to lower our own belief system. All these things however have over the years had very subtle effects on how many of us think and believe and also to how we actually perceive the world around us.
I will talk a little about my life in a moment and the trials and tribulations that brought me to some of my lowest points in my life where I discovered so much about myself and who I truly am and how I could truly achieve my full potential. If only they also had a class at schools even if only once a week teaching us about spirituality and the energy around us within the universe and techniques on how to get into the correct frequency and allowing us to align with what we truly want in life. Things would be so much easier for everyone but again this comes to greed and people at the top wanting it all. They think there is not enough to go around but when you start to discover the law of attraction and about how abundance and gratitude work hand in hand you will learn that there is enough richness in the world to go around. To be rich isn't always to have the most gold or the biggest houses although these things are all certainly achievable for every single one of us if we truly wanted and desired them. We often only have a little self love and self confidence if the truth be known and are willing to learn new mental exercises to re-establish our own belief system now it is not just hocus pocus and believe it and receive it as a lot of people walked away from the secret thinking it would just be a case of this Think positive, Believe and Achieve I know lots of people who didn't realise how the word Attraction is spelt. Once you have the thought and the dream that is just simply the seed. You must water it and tend to it and work fairly hard at achieving it to it's greatest potential.
You have to have faith and belief in what you are wanting then you have to have faith and belief in what actions you are doing to achieve and manifest these thoughts and beliefs into your reality. Our life is just like a road map we can plan a route or a journey to reach a destination but we can change that journey at anytime and the beauty of life is there is no right or wrong turns and if you do make a turn you don't feel is serving you then you can learn from it and turn back change the chapter and the outlook.
Goal of The Four Positives:
The goal of the four positives is to create a community of inspiring people who can encourage one another check out our YouTube channel for lots of inspiring content and lots more to come. If you would like to take part in the project and send us a one minute long video talking about your favourite affirmation or something that inspires you. We can use this to inspire others via our channel. The world needs some positivity right now so lets work together to build one another up and not tear one another down. Submit your videos below no longer than 2 mins. Please include in your email your name, career and any information you would like to add about yourself in the description up to 100 words.
Who is the creator of TheFourPositives.com
My name is Jessica James I grew up with my mother after my mum and dad split up. I would visit my father every other weekend. I have lived a completely different life experience to so many people in the world but I am sure there is still the same emotional rollercoaster that can connect in some way with so many others. Our emotions are our compass in life not so much who we are or what we do that is although a major part of us not entirely what directs us. We often don't listen enough to our emotions and we shall discover more of that as we go along with the program. We are currently in the process of creating an amazing online space for people to share their own positive experiences and encourage others to grow.
I grew up always knowing that I was very different from the other children at school. I didn't know what it was but I knew that I had a different calling and a different path to most. I was born male but always felt trapped as though I was in the wrong body. I would often get teased at both primary and secondary School. I went through a little bit of abuse with one of the babysitters and although I mostly had a very happy childhood at home there was some dark times as well. In no way is that a reflection on how I was brought up although when you learn about the law of attraction you don't always attract particularly what you ask for you can often attract things that you don't want just as easily and it is often attracted by the energy around you.
Anything that has happened to me in my life has made me stronger and made me the person that I am today. As a teenager I was still being bullied and as transgender issues where not spoken about much in the 1990's I always assumed it was just my sexuality and that I was effeminate because I must have just been gay. Some of my teachers in secondary School where very supportive but there was many who where at the time as bad as some of the bullies. Our geography teacher would often say ass to the wall boys when I would walk into class and at the time my step dad who I get on well with now but at the time he was extremely uneducated and told me that Aid's stands for anal injected death wish. It was at this point that I decided I was going to run away to the bright lights of London. I had no money just a small bag of clothes and I would hop the train and jump the barriers to become a homeless street urchin. I was also sitting my GCSE's so I had to travel back to school to finish them and I didn't get great grades as my head was often unable to concentrate with worry of finding my next meal, where would I sleep that night, How was I going to stop being bullied and being a victim.
My name is Jessica James I grew up with my mother after my mum and dad split up. I would visit my father every other weekend. I have lived a completely different life experience to so many people in the world but I am sure there is still the same emotional rollercoaster that can connect in some way with so many others. Our emotions are our compass in life not so much who we are or what we do that is although a major part of us not entirely what directs us. We often don't listen enough to our emotions and we shall discover more of that as we go along with the program. We are currently in the process of creating an amazing online space for people to share their own positive experiences and encourage others to grow.
I grew up always knowing that I was very different from the other children at school. I didn't know what it was but I knew that I had a different calling and a different path to most. I was born male but always felt trapped as though I was in the wrong body. I would often get teased at both primary and secondary School. I went through a little bit of abuse with one of the babysitters and although I mostly had a very happy childhood at home there was some dark times as well. In no way is that a reflection on how I was brought up although when you learn about the law of attraction you don't always attract particularly what you ask for you can often attract things that you don't want just as easily and it is often attracted by the energy around you.
Anything that has happened to me in my life has made me stronger and made me the person that I am today. As a teenager I was still being bullied and as transgender issues where not spoken about much in the 1990's I always assumed it was just my sexuality and that I was effeminate because I must have just been gay. Some of my teachers in secondary School where very supportive but there was many who where at the time as bad as some of the bullies. Our geography teacher would often say ass to the wall boys when I would walk into class and at the time my step dad who I get on well with now but at the time he was extremely uneducated and told me that Aid's stands for anal injected death wish. It was at this point that I decided I was going to run away to the bright lights of London. I had no money just a small bag of clothes and I would hop the train and jump the barriers to become a homeless street urchin. I was also sitting my GCSE's so I had to travel back to school to finish them and I didn't get great grades as my head was often unable to concentrate with worry of finding my next meal, where would I sleep that night, How was I going to stop being bullied and being a victim.
I was street homeless for around 4 months and one morning I woke up with someone next to me in their sleeping bag with a needle hanging out of their arm and totally unconscious. I had been in a couple of really strict hostels before this point and hated them being so restrictive with time curfews etc but at this moment I decided. I came up here to London to do something with my life and to become the best me that I can be. I came here to discover myself and by the time I was 17 I had decided to get myself into a hostel and to sit it out no matter how hard it felt or got I managed to get myself onto a housing list with CentrePoint homeless charity and by the time I was 18 I was offered a gorgeous little ground floor flat in Battersea with a garden.
I was so grateful and over the moon as the flat is blessed with amazingly wonderful neighbors who I have now lived next to for over 20 years!. Once when I was really in tough times one of my neigbors even lent me £800 towards my rent as I was falling behind and they had said they would hate to have seen me leave the street and become homeless again.
I always wanted to get into music and I never knew how I would go about it as I can't play any instruments but I always had a dream to be singer or performer of some kind and I met a friend at a house party who was studying and wanted to work with me he was producing music and we started working together I was also approached by another friend at the time who was also studying music at Eaton School and that would be where I would shoot my very first ever music video.
I would work within the London LGBT nightclub scene in the late 90's and early 00's performing on some of west ends finest venues stages such as The Shadow Lounge, Heaven, Two Too Much (Formerly Raymonds Revue Bar) G-A-Y where I would also often help with promotions as well as rub shoulders with many celebrities. I was just handing out CD's to people that I had recorded within the studio in the nightclubs.
My friend would tell me about this book called the secret which was the first time I realized that we can actually create what we want in our life we have the power to manifest what we truly desire. This was still a very new and very strange concept to me even though I had already attracted some great things at the time I still found things or should I say as I would later discover it was me holding me back. It took me almost 7 years of studying this new concept and I am still learning today.
I was attracting lots of good things but also in turn I seemed to be attracting a lot of negative people and negative situations. I had someone claiming to want to represent me as a manager who would rip me off (Or try to until my friend who is a queens councilor wrote him a letter of representation telling him to leave me alone)
There was many great things happening for me but yes lots of negative things too but I didn't realise that I was attracting everything to me. Even the bad things.
One of my proudest moments was when I thought how inspired I was by the likes of Dead or Alive and one evening I was performing at Two Too Much and who would be in the audience and stand up half way through my performance screaming and applauding me than Pete Burns their lead singer and a true Icon and idol of mine. He came back stage and said how much he loved my performance. I would realize that many things in my life that where good and bad had led on from a trail of thought that had some how lead to them happening. I couldn't understand it even after reading the secret, I thought well it is plausible but how exactly does this work? And to this day I still can not answer to you how this works but as each year passed I would start learning more and more about The Law Of Attraction or "LOA". Think of it like a radio frequency, we have to tune our energy into the things that we want out of life. We have to learn what our emotions are telling us and our actions are bringing to us.
I would start to see that the more grateful I was for the things I had in the moment the more the universe would provide me with situations in meeting people or doing things that would lead to me receiving more things to be grateful for and the times I was either ungrateful or felt I was in a bad place then more of the same would come. I would learn to connect that the things manifesting in my life where in some way connected to how I was feeling at the time. Learning to fine tune this and learning to concentrate on your truest desires is most probably the hardest part. It's about getting in the moment and getting in alignment with what you want.
After much research I would learn many different things about how our feelings are guiding us like a compass and ways to listen to them and ways to get in tune more with who they where telling me to be. I would meet more and more people within the music industry from Angie Brown to Samantha Fox, James Hurr who is an amazing producer and well known across the globe for working with some of the top people within the music industry names such as David Guetta, Robbie Williams and Mark Knight. He has worked with them all and we are now also working on a couple of small projects together. I still also work with my long time standing producer Scott Houzet who was the person who told me about the secret and am eternally grateful to him for so much help he has given to me over the years. I also have an amazing manager and am busy every day achieving more and more of my goals becoming more and more successful and every day I am truly blessed and grateful. My autobiography is also almost ready for publishing and will be coming very soon! And I am working on a self help book as well as some guided meditation story time audio books which will all be coming to this site for sale soon. If you look in the shop section you can see some of my recommendations of books and tools that have really helped me learn more on my own personal journey of self discovery.
Our future is our choice we hold it in our hands we just need to tune in what we do want and tune out what we don't want and we need to learn that sometimes what we don't want has been sent to us to teach us. Without bad times we would not know the good and we must always always be grateful for what have in the moment, be grateful for what we aspire to have in the future and never be miserable for what we don't have as if you think you don't have it. You Never Will! There are no right or wrongs in life only lessons and gained experiences the only time we fail is when we give up!
One of my favorite sayings is those that take will never have but those who give will naturally receive.
Why not join our facebook group where we encourage people to share there own positive memes, there positive life story's and experiences and to help pick each other up and boost each other in a otherwise world where people often seem to wish to drag people down. (It's all in their mind) They think what other people achieve is impossible for them to have when in reality the only person holding them back is themselves.
I was so grateful and over the moon as the flat is blessed with amazingly wonderful neighbors who I have now lived next to for over 20 years!. Once when I was really in tough times one of my neigbors even lent me £800 towards my rent as I was falling behind and they had said they would hate to have seen me leave the street and become homeless again.
I always wanted to get into music and I never knew how I would go about it as I can't play any instruments but I always had a dream to be singer or performer of some kind and I met a friend at a house party who was studying and wanted to work with me he was producing music and we started working together I was also approached by another friend at the time who was also studying music at Eaton School and that would be where I would shoot my very first ever music video.
I would work within the London LGBT nightclub scene in the late 90's and early 00's performing on some of west ends finest venues stages such as The Shadow Lounge, Heaven, Two Too Much (Formerly Raymonds Revue Bar) G-A-Y where I would also often help with promotions as well as rub shoulders with many celebrities. I was just handing out CD's to people that I had recorded within the studio in the nightclubs.
My friend would tell me about this book called the secret which was the first time I realized that we can actually create what we want in our life we have the power to manifest what we truly desire. This was still a very new and very strange concept to me even though I had already attracted some great things at the time I still found things or should I say as I would later discover it was me holding me back. It took me almost 7 years of studying this new concept and I am still learning today.
I was attracting lots of good things but also in turn I seemed to be attracting a lot of negative people and negative situations. I had someone claiming to want to represent me as a manager who would rip me off (Or try to until my friend who is a queens councilor wrote him a letter of representation telling him to leave me alone)
There was many great things happening for me but yes lots of negative things too but I didn't realise that I was attracting everything to me. Even the bad things.
One of my proudest moments was when I thought how inspired I was by the likes of Dead or Alive and one evening I was performing at Two Too Much and who would be in the audience and stand up half way through my performance screaming and applauding me than Pete Burns their lead singer and a true Icon and idol of mine. He came back stage and said how much he loved my performance. I would realize that many things in my life that where good and bad had led on from a trail of thought that had some how lead to them happening. I couldn't understand it even after reading the secret, I thought well it is plausible but how exactly does this work? And to this day I still can not answer to you how this works but as each year passed I would start learning more and more about The Law Of Attraction or "LOA". Think of it like a radio frequency, we have to tune our energy into the things that we want out of life. We have to learn what our emotions are telling us and our actions are bringing to us.
I would start to see that the more grateful I was for the things I had in the moment the more the universe would provide me with situations in meeting people or doing things that would lead to me receiving more things to be grateful for and the times I was either ungrateful or felt I was in a bad place then more of the same would come. I would learn to connect that the things manifesting in my life where in some way connected to how I was feeling at the time. Learning to fine tune this and learning to concentrate on your truest desires is most probably the hardest part. It's about getting in the moment and getting in alignment with what you want.
After much research I would learn many different things about how our feelings are guiding us like a compass and ways to listen to them and ways to get in tune more with who they where telling me to be. I would meet more and more people within the music industry from Angie Brown to Samantha Fox, James Hurr who is an amazing producer and well known across the globe for working with some of the top people within the music industry names such as David Guetta, Robbie Williams and Mark Knight. He has worked with them all and we are now also working on a couple of small projects together. I still also work with my long time standing producer Scott Houzet who was the person who told me about the secret and am eternally grateful to him for so much help he has given to me over the years. I also have an amazing manager and am busy every day achieving more and more of my goals becoming more and more successful and every day I am truly blessed and grateful. My autobiography is also almost ready for publishing and will be coming very soon! And I am working on a self help book as well as some guided meditation story time audio books which will all be coming to this site for sale soon. If you look in the shop section you can see some of my recommendations of books and tools that have really helped me learn more on my own personal journey of self discovery.
Our future is our choice we hold it in our hands we just need to tune in what we do want and tune out what we don't want and we need to learn that sometimes what we don't want has been sent to us to teach us. Without bad times we would not know the good and we must always always be grateful for what have in the moment, be grateful for what we aspire to have in the future and never be miserable for what we don't have as if you think you don't have it. You Never Will! There are no right or wrongs in life only lessons and gained experiences the only time we fail is when we give up!
One of my favorite sayings is those that take will never have but those who give will naturally receive.
Why not join our facebook group where we encourage people to share there own positive memes, there positive life story's and experiences and to help pick each other up and boost each other in a otherwise world where people often seem to wish to drag people down. (It's all in their mind) They think what other people achieve is impossible for them to have when in reality the only person holding them back is themselves.